Goodevening Mama Tina
.help me post this and please hide my identity.
I am a female aged 28 who got married last year September to a man who already had 2 kids then and separated with his wife 8 years ago,
I was 5 months pregnant when we had our traditional marriage 1 day in marriage I discovered the baby mama was 4 months pregnant for my husband.
13 days later I had a misconception because of stress from the bad news.i shipikishad 4 months in marriage and nothing was making sense to me rango's here and there,
unnecessary arguments, my husband reporting me to the family about anything slight and all that weighed me down that I gave up and packed back to my father's house.
We had a meeting both families after and we were given 3 months to stay apart and make final decisions for ourselves and here we are almost closing the given time.i miss him yes and I'd still want him to be my husband, he assured me whatever used to happen before and him going back to his ex won't happen again..
I am here to seek help because I am in the middle of feelings and real challenges ahead.The baby mama drama and everything else...guys please 🙏 help me in thoughts.
I am in a dilemma and obviously doesn't want to waste my life on such.Anybody whose been in this drama please 🙃 how should I handle it?Because clearly if I go back the drama will be there,
communication because of the kids and trust issues because even when he takes long to reach home from work I'll be having negative thoughts